For those of us who wish they still had their mom (or dad) to talk to.
Dear Mom,
Besides the fact I was so scatterbrained yesterday that I started 2 blog posts and didn’t finish or publish either one I have a dilemma and I need your help. I’m in an argument with my very best friend in the whole world, and my world is now upside down. How did this happen you may ask? Well you may think I am a bit hot-headed, stubborn, sensitive, and temporarily lost the filter of reason on what was coming out of my mouth. You have mentioned that on occasion but I don’t see it. If I were to admit that could be what happened then I would say I took one small statement from my BF and allowed it to hurt me without seeking to better understand where he was coming from and FLIPPED OUT! In the process not only creating a huge chasm between us but ruining something I really wanted in the first place. But I jumped to conclusions too quickly. So now I don’t have my BF nor do I have this very thing I coveted that he was handing me. So who won this argument? Not me, not him, not anyone.
Where am I supposed to go from here? If you’re a normal person you talk like rationale adults and work it out. Now I’m not saying I’m not normal (no smart comment from you mom), but you know I have an unhealthy share of self-preservation at all costs. You know hunt do not be the hunted. So when I get in these predicaments I have no idea where to go but to take a stand as wrong as it may be and feel incapable to stop the train wreck. Then I feel guilty and I vacillate between what I know is right and what I feel I should do to protect myself. It makes me look very wishy-washy. You ask how that’s worked for me so far. Ummm….not so well.
So I ask again where do I go from here? I need my BF and more importantly I want my BF.
I wish you were really here to help me.
Miss you.
Love, Laina
You do still have a “Father” who cares and if that Father
was being asked, what do I do? You would have been told:
If you know your reaction was wrong and cost you your Best
Friend, there is only one recourse an intelligent young
woman of your caliber can take. Yoy have to apologise,
you have to make it right. Your behavior was responsible
for opening the chasm. It will have to be your behavior
that will build the bridge to span that chasm.
We may be out of a relationship,
But “Fathers never stop loving.”
I am not going to be original this time, so all I am going to say that your blog rocks, sad that I don’t have suck a writing skills
I’d must examine with you here. Which isn’t one thing I usually do! I enjoy reading a submit that may make folks think. Also, thanks for allowing me to comment!