Be Courageous

The fact is, that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can.
Robert Cushing

Life is scary. Especially as an adult. Fear can sometimes seem to be an everyday occurrence. Family, health, finances, job related stressors, just to name a few. Fear can be ok as long as it doesn’t paralyze your ability to think clearly and be objective to the problem. Not always an easy task. So how can you stay objective and not shut down when you are faced with the difficult? For me I try to only focus on finding a solution. Not worry about what could happen if I don’t find a solution because focusing on the negative won’t help and will definitely hurt. A healthy number of repeating “where there’s a will there’s a way” can help too. Taking one day at a time can sometimes be the best course of action. Worrying too much about next week won’t help you fix today.

Would love to hear your input on this.
Laina

 

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Fragmented Writing

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I am having a hard time shifting gears the last few weeks. College professor by day and writer/blogger by night has usually been an ok transition but lately when I sit down at night, at the start of what I like to call my second shift, I stare at the screen trying to will myself to be creative and work on my next fiction novel but I do nothing but simply stare at the screen. I have story lines and ideas in my head but they are all jumbled and I have been having difficulty putting together enough cohesiveness to get the words out the way they need to be. I normally have been able to write from my idea outline and then continue a process of working my way from start to finish or middle to finish, adding additional story lines, details, more flair and dialogue until I get a finished product. This time it has been much different. I did complete the first rough draft the way I just explained but since then have just had starts and stops where I will start a new document and write a secondary story line based on one idea. Not even sure where it will fit into the story. So I have a 30,000-word rough, rough draft and a bunch of couple thousand word “extras.” And I am still having a hard time wrapping my brain around putting them together. It’s making me doubt the story although I do realize that is not the answer but rather a by-product of my frustration. I keep hoping as I write these “extras” I will eventually come to the A-HA! Moment and know exactly how it is all suppose to fit. So until then, fingers crossed.

Any advice?

Laina

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Focus is hocus-pocus

Yeah, I know that title doesn’t make any sense but I was having a hard time focusing on what I am supposed to be doing. Partly because I am not sure where to start and partly because where I should probably start isn’t really what I feel like doing. It made me wonder how much time I waste on “thinking” rather than actually doing? Then half way through wondering I realized I was doing it again. Thinking not doing. Sometimes it can be hard to get your self motivated. Especially about things that are less than fun. I decided to start doing all the things I don;t want to do first and then leave the “fun” stuff for the afternoon. At least it will give me something to look forward to.

How do you keep yourself motivated and on track? Here is an interesting article on the subject.

Laina

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Good New year’s message from Haseena Patel

Many have said that 2010 has been a tough year, that they hope 2011 is better. Truth be told, I feel that way myself, but even as I have such a thought, I am reminded of this truth. That experiences are never “good” or “bad” – they just are! It is how we respond to these experiences, how we internalize them, that determines our experience of them. read more

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I like to procrastinate

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Book progress or lack thereof…

Deadlines, what can be said about deadlines?? Right now I would like to say I hate them. A procrastinator by nature, making the final revisions to my book are not something I can put off because if I do not have them to my editor in time then they can’t do their work and everything gets thrown off. Don’t you hate that? I mean really, sometimes I just look at the screen of my laptop and want to stare off into space. It’s much more fun. I don’t feel like using neither my creativity nor my imagination. Honestly, I would rather go shopping right now. I even spent some time this morning thinking about what bills I could get rid of that might allow me to stop working. But then I would still want to shop and that idea went right out the window.

I need to be motivated and it’s just not there. So I need to draw some energy from you all, my friends. What do you do when you are faced with something you need to do, you have to do, and usually you want to do. But don’t want to do any of those things right this minute?

Help me????

Laina

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